Building Confidence

I recently adopted a 2.5 yr old female bullmastiff. She is a great dog- house broken, create trained, solid on all basic obedience commands and very affectionate with her new family. Unfortunately, she is rather skittish in new situations and around new people - not exactly the fearless confidence the breed is supposed to project. She will often urinate if approached too quickly by a man (she's more comfortable with women) and will stop dead in her tracks if spooked by a shopping cart or other loud moving objects. She'll bark when someone knocks on the door, but will not approach the door.

Any ideas on how to build her confidence and bring out the calm fearless confidence she is supposed to exhibit?

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Aidan's picture

Targeting for nervous dogs

Hi, "calm, fearless confidence" is something that very few dogs have these days. In days gone by it was important for certain breeds to have this, but now dogs are mostly judged and bred on appearances. This has lead to a general decline in the number of dogs displaying the traits their breed was originally known for.

Mind you, even a shy Bullmastiff is a good deterrent and in this litigious society where we give unreasonable license to people who want to intrude on our property almost any character trait is better than an aggressive one. That said, the original Bullmastiff "ideal" temperament is almost perfect for home security, because they were bred not to bite but to hold and bark. Even back in the day, very few dogs would meet the "ideal" anyway though.

But let's not lament the loss of good genes or debate the merits of different temperaments - let's look at how we can train the dog you HAVE to have as many of the character traits you want as possible. You quite correctly want to start with reducing the skittishness, a confident, happy dog is a much stronger foundation to work from.

This might sound crazy, but you need to read this article:
http://positivepetzine.com/node/79

It teaches you how to train a dog to touch a target.

Why is this important? In more examples than I care to mention targeting has been the fastest and most reliable solution for a shy or nervous dog. Teach her to touch the target stick reliably, then give it to a male friend and have her target it. The friend then starts holding the target stick further and further down the stick until your dog is targeting his hand.

You can also use the stick to direct your dog to touch objects that frighten her. Go easy, ALWAYS set your dog up for success.

Write back if you have any questions.

Regards,
Aidan
http://www.positivepetzine.com