Why Positive? Why Non-Violent?

Posted September 3rd, 2009 by K9sbehave

The journey started with being born to horse people. A Jockey father and horsewoman Mother. Always animals around. By age 8 till 14 mother became abusive to me. It colored my journey. I had to change the course of violence to real communication. Fortunately the rip between my mother and myself was healed at about age 40+ and my journey speeded up from there.
I wish I had learned more, sooner, but at least I learned and my children did not know violence from their mother and my animals did not either.
Now my job is to teach others how to use non-violent communication to train their pets. To teach how reward can color the relationship between all living creatures and humans.
A society is judged by how it treats it's animals is what I've heard.
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re: Why Positive? Why Non-Violent?

On September 4th, 2009 Aidan says:

Great post! I can think of hundreds of scientific reasons, but often it just comes down to our preferences and what we have learned along the way.

Regards,
Aidan
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re:Why Positive? Why Non-Violent?

On September 9th, 2009 K9sbehave says:

Thanks Aiden,
You are right, the science is what fascinated me, later. But I believe most are all driven to this (or any other profession that deals with living creatures) for some personal emotional reasons, as you can see by my post! LOL. We may all approach it differently for different reasons also! Like 'Who CAN I control', OH a dog!' and a cycle of that misguided dominant thing pops up and A dog trainer was born! It's the change from that to science and less of a need to Control thru force that creates real trainers.
I fell hard for the logic and reasoning of the science and it kept me in here, doing this job. Besides all the books I read on the science, for dog trainers, I also read (actually still reading) a really intense book, "Coercion and It's Fallout" by Murray Sidman. For all you behavior nerds and serious folks in the discussion on this subject of Dominance, Behavior and the like.
Thanks Aidan for such a great place to share and learn.
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